Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label psychology. Show all posts

Tuesday, 9 December 2008

Recessions Are For Sissies - Make Your Business Grow Now

By Christina Helwig

All over the world people are turning into little squirrels. They are gathering up their nuts and seeds and stuffing them away for "spring." They are passing up opportunities to conserve what little they have left because they do not want to be left with nothing at all when this economy turns around. This is absolutely the wrong thing to be doing right now. While of course people should be shoring up their financial situation, they should not be ducking their heads in the sand and hiding money in the mattress.

The first thing you should do is form a clear and concise plan of what your goals and objectives are for the next three years. Your plan should include a very precise snapshot of where you are financially right NOW! If you have not been keeping careful track on your monthly expenses and income you have some work to do. You cannot change anything until you first know where you are. Once you have that baseline you can decide where you would like to be in three years. Start off with thinking of the amount of income you would like to have and the different things you would like to have in your life: a new car, home, toys, charitable giving, money for your child's school etc. Once you have thought about these things then figure out how much each of these things will cost you. With your current financial snapshot and your "dream" list completed you then are in a position to figure out how much you need to earn to accomplish those goals in three years. The more income you want, the higher level of service or "effort" will be required on your part.

You will want to build into your plan both a way to reduce your debt and a way to build up your wealth. Take your current income and apportion it in a way you feel comfortable to accomplish these goals. Make sure to include a reoccurring monthly amount for starting a business or investment account. If you solely focus on eliminating debt you will freeze yourself into not being able to act on business opportunities until you have all your debt paid off. This cycle gets you no where. You will have no savings and never be able to act on your goals and dreams. We all know the debt cycle. Somehow just when you are almost finished paying everything off... boom the car breaks down or someone needs braces. By having a monthly wealth building account you have money set aside to invest and grow a business.

While your wealth building account grows you want to keep an eye out for bargains and potential ways to either grow your business or start a new business. An example right now would be consultants for people looking for jobs. As the job market shrinks more and more people need help to differentiate themselves from other job seekers. There are countless ways an entrepreneur could help people get and find jobs. You should also be on the lookout for innovative ways to improve things you use all the time. New and improved products always have a place in the market. Also start to pay careful attention to the way millionaires and more importantly billionaires are behaving in the market place. If you watch closely, they will give very big clues on stable companies and markets that it is wise to think about investing in. Many people make massive fortunes in troubled economic times. Its all a function of the way you think and how well you prepare yourself to meet challenges head on.

One of the most important things you can do to improve your earning capacity is to increase your knowledge and more importantly your self-confidence. Simply reading a book a week or watching a motivational video can help give you the confidence to take action on your goals and dreams. Nothing happens while you are sitting around complaining about the economy. The prizes in this new era will go to the people who are not afraid to invest in themselves and take action even when others are hiding from the world.

About the Author:
When you change your habits, actions and thoughts, your whole life will change. Set aside a few moments each day to work on your goals. Click on http://www.GlobalSuccessILG.com to learn about how to increase your income and create wealth

. This site covers topics from tax strategies, to growing your business

and many more. Christina Helwig is an attorney and VP of Wealth Expressions, Inc.

Fight The Recession - Make Your Business Grow And Prosper

By Christina Helwig

All over the country people are turning paranoid. They are hiding in their homes and waiting for "spring." They are passing up great opportunities in order to conserve what little they have "left" because they do not want to have nothing at all when the economy turns around. This is absolutely the wrong thing to be doing right now. While of course people should be shoring up their money situation; they should not be ducking their heads in the sand and hiding money in their mattresses.

The first thing you should do is form a clear and concise plan of what your goals and objectives are for the next three years. Your plan should include a very precise snapshot of where you are financially right NOW! If you have not been keeping careful track on your monthly expenses and income you have some work to do. You cannot change anything until you first know where you are. Once you have that baseline you can decide where you would like to be in three years. Start off with thinking of the amount of income you would like to have and the different things you would like to have in your life: a new car, home, toys, charitable giving, money for your child's school etc. Once you have thought about these things then figure out how much each of these things will cost you. With your current financial snapshot and your "dream" list completed you then are in a position to figure out how much you need to earn to accomplish those goals in three years. The more income you want, the higher level of service or "effort" will be required on your part.

You will want to build into your financial plan both a way to reduce your financial obligations and a way to build up your wealth. Take your current income and divide it in a way you feel comfortable to accomplish these goals. Make sure to include a reoccurring monthly amount for starting a business or an investment account. If you solely focus on eliminating debt you will force yourself into not being able to act on opportunities until you have all your debt paid off. This cycle gets you no where. You will have no savings and never be able to act on your goals and dreams. We all know the debt cycle. Somehow just when you are almost finished paying everything off... boom the car breaks down or someone needs braces. By having a monthly wealth building account you have money set aside to invest and grow a business.

While your wealth building account grows you want to keep an eye out for bargains and potential ways to either grow your business or start a new business. An example right now would be consultants for people looking for jobs. As the job market shrinks more and more people need help to differentiate themselves from other job seekers. There are countless ways an entrepreneur could help people get and find jobs. You should also be on the lookout for innovative ways to improve things you use all the time. New and improved products always have a place in the market. Also start to pay careful attention to the way millionaires and more importantly billionaires are behaving in the market place. If you watch closely, they will give very big clues on stable companies and markets that it is wise to think about investing in. Many people make massive fortunes in troubled economic times. Its all a function of the way you think and how well you prepare yourself to meet challenges head on.

One of the most important things you can do to improve your earning capacity is to increase your knowledge and more importantly your self-confidence. Simply reading a book a week or watching a motivational video can help give you the confidence to take action on your goals and dreams. Nothing happens while you are sitting around complaining about the economy. The prizes in this new era will go to the people who are not afraid to invest in themselves and take action even when others are hiding from the world.

About the Author:
When you change your habits, actions and thoughts, your whole life will change. Set aside several moments each day to work on your goals. Click on http://www.GlobalSuccessILG.com to learn about how to increase your income and create wealth

. This site covers topics from tax strategies, to growing your business

and many more. Christina Helwig is an attorney and VP of Wealth Expressions, Inc.

Find The Alpha Male In You

By Bruce Min

We've all known people at some point in our lives who we personally don't think to be attractive, yet they're still able to pick up women? Furthermore, we've all seen attractive women be approached by men who don't dress or look nearly as good as ourselves, yet are still able to strike a conversation with that person.

This is the alpha male. For now, if you have not been able to do what he is able to do, he is not your competition. He should be your model. The alpha male is a great example of a man who is confident and secure about himself and, as a result, do not see picking up women as a nerve-wracking mission.

The alpha male is not the usual cocky and arrogant person who thinks that the world revolves around them. The alpha male is a person with passion, no matter if it's from their business or any other talent that they may have. Women are instantly drawn to him, thinking that he just may be worth getting to know, and not just some guy looking for a 'one-nighter'.

The alpha male is a fun guy, quick to spot moments where a refreshing punch line can be delivered. The alpha male's punch line is not straight out of a movie but rather a spontaneous and humorous response to the conversation. More than, finding what's funny about other people, the alpha male is willing to laugh at himself because he feels secure enough about his own self. Using humor is one of the best ways to attract women.

The alpha male is also very elegant in his social status. This could be something as simple as remaining calm when a serious issue arises. This could also be when to hear, and when to be heard. The alpha male knows how to talk to a woman to attract or further attract her attention. All of these qualities, in turn, are those that will create an attraction on the female's part. An attraction that causes the female to want to get to know the alpha male, to settle down with him, and to create a powerful relationship with him.

An alpha male has several special qualities in attracting females, though one in particular is a very powerful tool. His dominance reflects a powerful individual who is secure with their personality, in their own life, and enough to be able to extend this confidence into someone else's life. The alpha male knows what he wants out of life, and is willing to fight to achieve those wants. Consequently, women are instantly attracted to such confidence, as it demonstrates a secure future for them as well. The alpha male isn't just the desperate person you find at a bar, who is willing to go out with anyone, just to get a girlfriend. He is calm about his attraction to her, and extends his gratitude simply for the conversation; for the company.

An alpha male may seem as though he is an imaginary person that no one can ever really live up to. Well fortunately, that statement is incorrect, as the alpha male can live within you.

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Hypnosis Online

By Patrick Glancy, BCH

A hypnotic state can be obtained by simply watching TV or driving. It can also be obtained other ways but they require practice, training and time. It is very difficult to produce this state without those things on command. However it is not impossible to achieve this once you learn how to properly do it. There are many products online which offer to teach you hypnosis, however you may find it best to try a few private sessions before committing to buy expensive online programs.

Learning about your body and reaction is critical to learning hypnosis. Each of us will react differently to the state and you should be prepared for what to expect. This is one reason why a private session is recommended first. Some people feel "tingly" or like they are floating while under hypnosis. The mind may feel numb or blank while you are under. Others might not feel these things what so ever. For first timers who have not been hypnotized, you might be unsure of what you are supposed to feel which can be intimidating.

Another way in which a personal session can help is by experiencing how you work through your issues. Hypnosis can be used to help with a variety of issues such as weight loss, smoking or gambling. Not everyone reacts or has the same experiences which lead them to hypnosis. Some people may relive a tragic event in their past which lead them to gaining weight, while having a one on one session, the hypnotist is able to help the client work through the issue instead of them dealing with it at home and alone.

Progress is the ultimate result we all want. A professional will provide a plan and a tracking method so you can see hypnosis is working. Not everyone is the same and the hypnotist can formulate a program and talk with the client about their progress and if need be, change the plan. Progressing in treatment is important, if you are not seeing progress, it becomes more difficult to stay with the program.

Online products and individual session while used together can increase your success rate. The CD's DVD's can help you learn to put yourself in a hypnotic state quickly and while you practice achieving this state, it will become easier to go under at your session. You will also learn to understand how it feels to be hypnotized and how your mind reacts to hypnosis. Once you are at your one on one session you will not be nervous about being put under making the session more useful. For the time between sessions the CD's help clients to continue practicing and help them to maintain their progress.

Some might feel the private sessions are a waste of time and money since there are products online. While it may be true, online products are cheaper, however private sessions are invaluable for advancement and achieving results quickly. Private sessions are tailor made for each your individual progress and personality.

Try it out you have nothing to lose. Talk with your hypnotist about the CD's or DVD's you found online. Try a private session and see how you feel afterward. There are many different ways of being hypnotized and the best way all depends on you. So do your research but think about the importance of a personalized session before making the decision to not try it at all. The choice is yours, but don't short yourself.

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How To Get Rid Of Panic Attack

By Alakay Newberry

Having a panic attack is not the most fun thing that you can experience. During the panic attack, you feel as if you are going to die because you feel that you cannot breathe and your chest closing up. But while there are many natural cures for panic attack so many people still suffer from a anxiety attack.

The idea is to stop a panic attack before it even starts, and even if it does you want to stop a panic attack quickly. It takes about 3 minutes for your adrenal glands to produce sufficient adrenaline to set off a panic attack or an anxiety attack. So if you are aware of the panic attack before it becomes full force you can stop that panic attack quickly.

Trying to find a cure for panic attack is a good thing but you must first understand what is causing your anxiety attack. If you are experiencing a period in your life where you have a lot of undue stress this will likely cause a panic attack.

The second greatest reason for panic attacks is phobia. If you are having an underlying phobia, such as fear of small places or crowded places, this will cause you to experience a panic attack. Seeking the aid of a doctor might be able to help this ailment.

Paying attention to your body is important because you will begin to know how frequently you have a panic attack. And once it starts, how long does it normally last and how out of control do you feel. Although feeling out of control is normal.

The following will show you how to deal with a panic attack:

Step 1. When you are experiencing a panic attack, you should try to relax. This might sound crazy because that is the last thing you can do but you must try and just relax. The more you relax, the more you will allow oxygen to flow into your body, thus reducing the panic attack and causing you to feel better.

Step 2. Most times what cause a panic attack is having negative thoughts that just seem to be taking over all your thoughts. But just by replacing these negative thoughts with positive thoughts you might be able to come out of your negative downward spiral. Remember breathing and thinking positive thoughts will help you drastically.

Most of the time you are having an attack you will not have anyone around you or you will have no one there to help you get through it. You will have to rely on yourself and become your own best friend or cheer-leader to bring you back in balance. Talk to yourself as you would to a friend that is experiencing this episode.

Learning these simple truths can help you cure your panic attack and get control of all the anxiety that you might be feeling. You will notice that as you feel more in control that your attacks will lessen and you will be more like your old self again.

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10 Things To Do And Not To Do During An Anxiety Attacks

By Zul Rahman

Most of us came across an anxiety attacks at one time or another in our life. Strangely enough we didn't even know that we were under anxiety attacks. What are the do's and don'ts when we are under attacks?

1) Please calm yourself since you are not dying.

If you are thinking that you are going to die, then it will aggravate more fear which lead to more anxiety. It is going to make your situations worse rather than solving it.

2) Do not breathe from your chest. Take a deep breath from the abdomen.

Even under normal circumstances, chest breathing would means that you are in fear. Chest breathing could lead to increase in dizziness and numbness during anxiety attacks.

3) Keep thinking positively.

It is natural for you to have negative thought during the attack such as I am fainting now or I cannot breathe. Try to turn the situation around since negative thinking will breed fear and worsen your situation.

4) Keep feeding your mind with positive thinking

Keep telling yourself that you are going to get through this soon. Anxiety attacks is indeed temporary. By thinking positively the whole experience is easy.

5) Help from health care professionals are always there for you.

Your own family doctors, counselors, psychologist, psychiatrist and mental health professionals should be able to advise you on how to cope with anxiety attacks.

6) People who are close to you like your spouse, children or trusted friends deserve to know and share your problems.

People that are close to you such as your spouse and friends are a great source of help. They should be able to emotionally support you to go through the hard times.

7) It is very important to strictly follow your health care providers professionals advice. Take your medication on time and follow all the program that was scheduled for you.

8) Don't be helpless.

You have all the help you need out there. Put yourself together. Take charge of yourself, be positive get into action gear and go. You have the right to live a happy and worry free life.

9) Good news, you are not alone.

Support group is a great resources to learn from as well as contribute your opinion and share your experience. I'm sure you could find many support group that suit you in your locality.

10) Open up your mind. Learn more about anxiety and panic attacks.

There are many educational materials that you can get such as books, audio and video materials. The more educated you are about panic and anxiety attacks, the less fear you have. With more knowledge you are able to manage your problems wisely.

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Anxiety Disorder Among College Students

By C Bolden

College is a stressful time for almost all students. Getting along with roommates, dealing with new social pressures, being exposed to alcohol or drugs, managing finances, meeting academic demands - all while being away from home for the first time and without familiar sources of support - can leave many students feeling overwhelmed, confused and stressed out. While much of the stress and anxiety that college students experience is normal and even healthy, some will experience chronic, relentless anxiety that may be a sign of an anxiety disorder.

In fact, according to a new study from the ADAA, colleges and universities across the United States are seeing a major increase in students requiring mental health services for anxiety disorders. Some students may have experienced symptoms before college that became worse upon leaving home, while others may be experiencing such symptoms for the first time (the college years are often when mental health problems such as anxiety disorders manifest themselves).

Whatever the case, it is important for college students - and their parents - to understand the symptoms, available treatment options and ways to find help for an anxiety disorder. Because of the unique changes and challenges that college students experience, leaving an anxiety disorder untreated during this crucial time in their lives can have serious consequences on their futures. This makes it of the utmost importance for students with an anxiety disorder to be treated for their condition. Read on to learn more about recognizing - and finding help for - an anxiety disorder in your college-aged child.

Anxiety disorders are a unique group of illnesses that fill people's lives with persistent, excessive and unreasonable anxiety, worry and fear. They include generalized anxiety disorder (GAD), obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), panic disorder, posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), social anxiety disorder (SAD) and specific phobias. Although anxiety disorders are serious medical conditions, they are treatable.

Anxiety disorders are the most common mental health disorder in children, adolescents and adults. 40 million American adults - over 18 percent of the population - suffer from an anxiety disorder each year. According to the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), almost 75 percent of those with an anxiety disorder will experience their first episode before they are 22 years old, making awareness of these disorders among college-aged students and their parents essential.

For many of the individual anxiety disorders, the age of onset often falls during the college years. The median age of onset for OCD is 19, agoraphobia is 20, and PTSD is 23 years of age. As mentioned above, students are faced with emotional, physical, financial and other life changes during college. While the stress of these events do not cause anxiety disorders, they can serve to make the symptoms of an anxiety disorder worse or can trigger an anxiety disorder in someone who is pre-disposed.

In addition to these challenges, many aspects of a student's lifestyle changes once he or she is away from home - which can also affect his or her mental health. Unhealthy and irregular eating and lack of adequate sleep - along with increased use of caffeine - can exacerbate anxiety problems.

Alcohol and substance use - extremely common among college students - may trigger anxiety symptoms and panic attacks, interfere with medication a student may be taking for anxiety or lead a student to alter the use of his/her medication as he/she sees fit (i.e., "I want to drink tonight, so I'm not going to take my medication"). This can be a dangerous habit. Parents should help educate students about the effects their lifestyles can have on their anxiety disorder, as well as the complex issues surrounding anxiety disorders and alcohol/substance use.

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Monday, 8 December 2008

Regression Therapy - Why You Should Remember Past Lives

By David Shakkid

Do you feel like no one wants you? Are you addicted to controlled substances? Are you often the target of bullying for no reason you can ascertain? Do you have problems controlling your anger? Do you have problems maintaining a healthy relationship? Do you have it all, yet still feel that something is missing?

If you are having one or more of these problems and nothing has seemed to be effective in resolving the issue; with these problems continuing to plague you then this article is for you. You may not have considered it before, but regression therapy could be the answer you've been seeking.

According to the Past Life Therapy Center, Regression Therapy means facing the dark to encourage the light. It is a category of hypnotic therapy wherein the client is being assisted by a therapist to return to his past experiences with his mind still being conscious.

These past experiences can include experiences from the adulthood of the client, their adolescence; even all the way back to their prenatal stage!

Past life regression therapy however takes this a step further and takes clients back in time to before conception; to a time before their previous life.

It is difficult for many people to accept this concept. Unless you are deeply religious, most people believe that when you die you die; but there is now so much evidence to show that this current life is just one of many.

Clients have been known to speak in foreign languages or recite "memories" of famous battles and wars. Some even conclude that they lived during pre-historic times and remember hunting big game with their spouse, who is in fact their current mate.

It is really exciting when someone manages to find hard evidence about what they remembered during past life regression therapy perhaps by looking at historical documents and recognizing names and places.

There are scientific studies going on around the world showing well documented cases of children remembering everything about a past life. Often this past life was just a few years before their present life and so they are able to meet friends and family still living who they have amazingly accurate memories of.

It really helps in this life if we know what happened to us during those times in the past, because this form part of the way we look at this life, thus giving us the ultimate comprehension of ourselves and the patterns of our perspective.

Regression therapists have a phrase they use called "faulty thoughts". Faulty thoughts are the negative emotions and thoughts which people my carry over from one life to the next. This bad karma can have a negative impact on the way you live now.

The person who has created these negative feelings can get relief by releasing these feelings in order to allow their energy field to be molded into a positive one. Forgiveness, re-patterning and karmic repayment are all ways of releasing these negative feelings.

Forgiveness is a basic biblical principle; the entire faith is dependent upon it. Karmic repayment is the idea that we must repay the wrongs we have committed even if they are from a previous life. Basically correct the bad behavior to correct the bad karma.

Only after undergoing these corrective measures can we re-pattern our energy fields by replacing them with gentleness, care, tranquility, and harmony.

Regression therapy can be hard on you but is truly life changing. Clients nearly universally report having a more positive outlook on life and a feeling of renewal.

This change does not come without a price however. To be fully successful one must be totally committed to exploring their mind in order to change their life dramatically.

Regression therapy is an intriguing idea, and if you are experiencing troubles in your life, it could be very helpful. On the other hand, you may just be curious about who or what you were in another life, whatever the reason you should sincerely think about trying it.

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