Tuesday 9 December 2008

Find The Alpha Male In You

By Bruce Min

We've all known people at some point in our lives who we personally don't think to be attractive, yet they're still able to pick up women? Furthermore, we've all seen attractive women be approached by men who don't dress or look nearly as good as ourselves, yet are still able to strike a conversation with that person.

This is the alpha male. For now, if you have not been able to do what he is able to do, he is not your competition. He should be your model. The alpha male is a great example of a man who is confident and secure about himself and, as a result, do not see picking up women as a nerve-wracking mission.

The alpha male is not the usual cocky and arrogant person who thinks that the world revolves around them. The alpha male is a person with passion, no matter if it's from their business or any other talent that they may have. Women are instantly drawn to him, thinking that he just may be worth getting to know, and not just some guy looking for a 'one-nighter'.

The alpha male is a fun guy, quick to spot moments where a refreshing punch line can be delivered. The alpha male's punch line is not straight out of a movie but rather a spontaneous and humorous response to the conversation. More than, finding what's funny about other people, the alpha male is willing to laugh at himself because he feels secure enough about his own self. Using humor is one of the best ways to attract women.

The alpha male is also very elegant in his social status. This could be something as simple as remaining calm when a serious issue arises. This could also be when to hear, and when to be heard. The alpha male knows how to talk to a woman to attract or further attract her attention. All of these qualities, in turn, are those that will create an attraction on the female's part. An attraction that causes the female to want to get to know the alpha male, to settle down with him, and to create a powerful relationship with him.

An alpha male has several special qualities in attracting females, though one in particular is a very powerful tool. His dominance reflects a powerful individual who is secure with their personality, in their own life, and enough to be able to extend this confidence into someone else's life. The alpha male knows what he wants out of life, and is willing to fight to achieve those wants. Consequently, women are instantly attracted to such confidence, as it demonstrates a secure future for them as well. The alpha male isn't just the desperate person you find at a bar, who is willing to go out with anyone, just to get a girlfriend. He is calm about his attraction to her, and extends his gratitude simply for the conversation; for the company.

An alpha male may seem as though he is an imaginary person that no one can ever really live up to. Well fortunately, that statement is incorrect, as the alpha male can live within you.

About the Author:
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